Good Instincts

Get better at the people side of work.

Work gets complicated when people are involved. There is not always a policy, script, template, or perfect answer for what happens next.

Good Instincts helps you build the judgment, confidence, and practical people skills to navigate those moments better.

People do not come with instructions.

You can learn the process. You can read the policy. You can memorize the framework.

Then a real person walks into the room.

They react differently than you expected. Something changes. The conversation gets uncomfortable. The answer is not obvious.

That is where Good Instincts lives.

See how Good Instincts works

Start with the problem

What are you trying to get better at?

  • Understand People

    Know yourself. Read the person in front of you. Adapt your approach.

  • Have Better Conversations

    Feedback, accountability, conflict, coaching, and the conversations people tend to avoid.

  • Make Better Decisions

    Navigate gray areas, challenge assumptions, and make the call when the answer is not obvious.

  • Build Trust

    Create relationships strong enough for honesty, challenge, accountability, and growth.

  • Lead With Confidence

    Set expectations, manage up, influence, follow through, and become the kind of leader people want to work for.

  • Think More Strategically

    Zoom out, connect the dots, anticipate what happens next, and solve more than the problem directly in front of you.

Our philosophy

Good instincts are built.

They are built through experience. Self-awareness. Curiosity. Better questions. Understanding people. Understanding the business. Making decisions. Getting some things wrong. Reflecting. Trying again.

Good Instincts helps you build those capabilities intentionally instead of waiting for years of experience to teach them the hard way.

The Good Instincts Method

  1. Notice

    Pay attention to what you are seeing, hearing, and feeling.

  2. Question

    Ask one more question.

  3. Understand

    See the person, not just the behavior. Zoom in on the person and zoom out to the system.

  4. Adapt

    Know your default. Read their preference. Adapt your approach.

  5. Decide

    Test your assumptions, consider the impact, and make the call.

  6. Act

    Create clarity. Say what needs to be said. Follow through.

  7. Reflect

    Learn from what happened and carry the lesson forward.

The Instinct Check

Real situation. No perfect answer. What would you do?

The situation

A manager tells you an employee has been underperforming for months and wants to move to formal corrective action. You ask what feedback the employee has received.

The manager says: “Nothing formal. But they know.”

What’s your instinct?

What caught your attention? What would you ask next?

Don’t scroll yet. Pick the one closest to your first reaction.

See more Instinct Checks

Read the room

Know your default. Read their preference. Adapt your approach.

Everyone has a default. Good instincts start with noticing yours, then reading the person in front of you. The principle may stay the same while the delivery changes.

  • Directness is useful. Impatience isn’t.
  • Empathy is useful. Ambiguity isn’t.
  • Preparation is useful. Overanalysis isn’t.
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  • Communication
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  • Processing
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Something useful today

Meet Meghan

Hi, I’m Meghan.

I have spent my career in the conversations where there is not always an obvious answer: coaching leaders, navigating performance and employee situations, building talent and leadership systems, and helping people figure out what actually needs to happen next.

The thing I have learned is that the hardest parts of work usually are not the policy or the process. They are the human parts.

Good Instincts is where I teach the judgment, questions, conversations, and people skills experience usually teaches the hard way.

The Instinct Session

Bring the situation. Let’s work through your thinking.

Pathways

Ways to build your instincts.

  1. 01

    Learn

    Articles, videos, real-world scenarios, and The Instinct Check.

  2. 02

    Use

    Practical tools, field guides, worksheets, and toolkits for situations happening now.

  3. 03

    Develop

    Instinct Sessions and coaching that help you strengthen your own judgment rather than depend on someone else for the answer.

  4. 04

    Bring it to work

    Workshops, manager development, HRBP development, team learning, and organizational tools.

  5. 05

    My Good InstinctsComing soon

    A future personal space to practice, reflect, and see your growth.

What we believe

What will it feel like to be led by you?

A good manager can get results. Great leaders do more.

They notice when something changes. They ask before they assume. They tell people the truth. They create clarity. They hold people accountable. They care about growth. And they remember that the person sitting across from them is a person before they are an employee.

Years from now, people may not remember every goal you hit. They will remember what it felt like to work for you.

If that is not the kind of leader you want to be, Good Instincts probably is not for you.

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